You’re engaged! CONGRATULATIONS!!! Having been a bride recently myself, I thought I’d share a few of my favorite tips for keeping yourself inspired (& sane) while you design, plan, and create your wedding day celebration.
- Stay organized. Start a ‘wedding binder’ with separate sections for your guest lists, creative ideas, financial breakdown, and important vendor contracts.
- To give your party a color theme and direction, collect images and things that you like to create an inspiration board. In the digital realm, pintrest is a great tool for this.
- Share your ideas and get feedback; bridal party members and family love this as it makes them feel included.
- Do not do things just because it’s how it’s “supposed” to be. Let your celebration be a reflection of who you are as a couple and what makes sense to you and your fiancé personally. Creating your own traditions can be very romantic.
- Don’t ever forget to have FUN with it all. If you’re feeling stressed out, let yourself take a break for a few days.
- Get really comfortable with your personal style and expressing it by experimenting and being open to new things.
- Talk to your parents or married friends about their weddings; ask them what was really important and memorable after all was said and done.
- Take risks! You only get to throw this party once, be unique!
- Make sure you hire professional vendors you like, as they’ll be around all day.
- Check online reviews on WeddingWire and contact previous clients to ask about their experiences with your vendors. For photographers, (if you haven’t already hired me at SoManyMoments.com!) the WPJA is a wonderful resource for finding the best of the best.
- Take your fiancé on a date before the wedding with the only rule being NOT to talk at all about the wedding.
- Enjoy every moment of being engaged. It’s such a gift you’ve found someone so perfect for you, and you’re planning a party where all of the people you love most will gather aroundto wish you nothing but the best. Try to remember that this is what this is all about. <3










































































































